Embracing the adventure of living one question, one connection, and one moment at a time.
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The Girl Behind the Blog
I am Janessa!
It has been my life’s mission to create a positive impact on the world. After graduating college, I was left with my thoughts and feelings of emptiness. I was conflicted with where I belong in the big, vast world.
That’s when it hit me! I will start this blog to explore ideas and connect with like-minded people who feel the same loneliness I do. In the midst of what kind of week you’re having, you can always count on me to bring the right amount of fun!
Recent Works We Explore Together:
Traditions don’t have to be inherited—they can be invented. From sitcom rituals to quiet moments with family, I’ve been thinking about how we make meaning from the ordinary. It’s not about waiting for the calendar to tell you what’s important. It’s about choosing to make something matter. This week, I’m reflecting on intentionality, effort, and the beautiful, silly ways we create traditions of our own.
Growth begins the moment you question what you’ve always accepted as true—even if it’s just your hate for eggs.
Philosophy 60 wasn’t just a crash course in propositional logic—it was a deep dive into how we build, challenge, and refine ideas. Through the chaos of conditional statements and the beauty of growth, I learned that progress isn’t linear; it’s about embracing the process and trusting the journey.
In a world driven by consumption, women stand at the intersection of influence and impact—fueling the economy while bearing the weight of systemic inequalities like the Pink Tax. It’s a delicate dance, shaped by generational values, marketing tactics, and societal norms that tell us we’re never quite enough. But what if we stepped off this endless treadmill? What if we celebrated the wrinkles on our faces and the wisdom they signify, rejecting the notion that beauty is a problem to solve? Together, let’s unpack how overconsumption, gender, and culture intertwine—and reimagine what it means to truly listen to ourselves.
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Welcome to the world of TUT
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Nothing to listen to?
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IYKYK
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Dance + Sing
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Co-Collective Friends
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(Florence + the Machine Edition)
A reflection on the emotional math of adulthood—deciding whether an experience is worth the cost. It explores the tension between saving for the future and living in the moment, through the lens of a concert I almost didn’t attend. From front-row euphoria to quiet financial guilt, it’s about the choices we make, the ones we nearly miss, and the memories that remind us what it means to feel alive.