Unveiling Secrets or Are You a Part of The Journey?
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Unveiling Secrets or Are You a Part of The Journey?

In my 20th post, I reflect on the journey that brought The Unfinished Times to life, sharing the behind-the-scenes process of how I balance procrastination with my love for writing. From the early days of brainstorming to the final touches on my music covers, I reveal the creative flow that keeps me going each week. I also delve into the heart of why I write—how journaling and music have helped me process my emotions, and how I hope my blog creates a space where others can feel seen and heard. Looking ahead, I’m excited to expand this blog into the Co-Collective, a community where we can collaborate, grow, and express ourselves together.

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Do You Prefer College Parties or College Paradoxes?
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Do You Prefer College Parties or College Paradoxes?

"Are you going to that party tonight?" was a common question for me my first year of college, but it’s been years since I’ve heard it. Now, I’m the one hosting, welcoming everyone who’s finally made it to my party. College is a double-edged sword—I’ve learned that it’s not about the degree or the title you hold, but rather the paradox of hating school yet continuing because it’s expected. The pressure to secure a job often overshadows the joy of learning, making me wonder what it would be like to just enjoy expanding the mind without the looming weight of tuition and future careers.

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Was it Destiny or Were We Just Bored?
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Was it Destiny or Were We Just Bored?

Reflects on the unexpected journey of adopting my first pet, a mischievous kitten named Benji. Despite growing up without a pet, I have love for animals led us to take the leap into pet ownership with my partner. Through chaotic moments and allergic reactions, Benji's playful troublemaking has brought joy and challenges into their lives. I have learned to embraces the ups and downs, finding fulfillment in checking off a childhood dream—though with a twist!

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Is Life Unknowingly Known or Knowingly Unknown?
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Is Life Unknowingly Known or Knowingly Unknown?

In this weekly reflection, the writer contemplates the challenges and growth experienced at 18 and 22, finding unexpected solace in a pandemic-altered life. The upcoming 23rd year brings anxiety about adulthood. The chosen song, "Don't Trust Me" by The Booyah! Kids, parallels the theme of self-distrust and seeking balance.

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