
Making 5-Year Plans or More like Tearing Them Up?

Is This The American Dream or The American Nightmare?

Spiraling Deep in Self-Doubt or Is this Unrelease Potential?

Can You Balance Life or Does Life Balance You?
Where tattoos reveal stories and the fleeting idea of permanence. Dive in with me the artistry of the ink world and its' true meaning.

Unveiling Secrets or Are You a Part of The Journey?
In my 20th post, I reflect on the journey that brought The Unfinished Times to life, sharing the behind-the-scenes process of how I balance procrastination with my love for writing. From the early days of brainstorming to the final touches on my music covers, I reveal the creative flow that keeps me going each week. I also delve into the heart of why I write—how journaling and music have helped me process my emotions, and how I hope my blog creates a space where others can feel seen and heard. Looking ahead, I’m excited to expand this blog into the Co-Collective, a community where we can collaborate, grow, and express ourselves together.

Do You Prefer College Parties or College Paradoxes?
"Are you going to that party tonight?" was a common question for me my first year of college, but it’s been years since I’ve heard it. Now, I’m the one hosting, welcoming everyone who’s finally made it to my party. College is a double-edged sword—I’ve learned that it’s not about the degree or the title you hold, but rather the paradox of hating school yet continuing because it’s expected. The pressure to secure a job often overshadows the joy of learning, making me wonder what it would be like to just enjoy expanding the mind without the looming weight of tuition and future careers.

Was it Destiny or Were We Just Bored?
Reflects on the unexpected journey of adopting my first pet, a mischievous kitten named Benji. Despite growing up without a pet, I have love for animals led us to take the leap into pet ownership with my partner. Through chaotic moments and allergic reactions, Benji's playful troublemaking has brought joy and challenges into their lives. I have learned to embraces the ups and downs, finding fulfillment in checking off a childhood dream—though with a twist!

Do You Huff & Puff or Inhale Three, Exhale Ten?
Exploring the art of breathing in fitness, this post highlights breathing techniques for better workouts, mindfulness, and sleep, emphasizing the connection between breath and athletic performance.

The Best Things in Life are Free or in Japan?
Sharing travel highlights from Japan, including cultural experiences, a family reunion, navigating earthquakes, and the joys of ramen, this post offers reflections and tips for adventurers exploring the Land of the Rising Sun.

Is Life Unknowingly Known or Knowingly Unknown?
In this weekly reflection, the writer contemplates the challenges and growth experienced at 18 and 22, finding unexpected solace in a pandemic-altered life. The upcoming 23rd year brings anxiety about adulthood. The chosen song, "Don't Trust Me" by The Booyah! Kids, parallels the theme of self-distrust and seeking balance.

You Got a Phone Call or Are You Already on the Line?
Rejection may be a lonely journey, but it’s also the birthplace of self-discovery, faith, and the strength to keep moving forward—even when the road ahead is uncertain.

Are You Into Stars or Are You a Skeptic?
Astrology may not hold up to scientific scrutiny, but its ancient wisdom still resonates deeply with how we understand ourselves, our families, and the connections that shape our lives.

Do You Even Lift Bro or Are you Shy?
The biggest obstacle in my fitness journey wasn’t the weights or the workout—it was the way I saw myself. Once I changed my mindset, the rest followed.