Do Work and Friendship Mix or Am I Missing Something?
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Do Work and Friendship Mix or Am I Missing Something?

On my quest to better myself, I've been stepping out of my shell and meeting new people—especially at work. I've had coworker friends before, but they never made it beyond the office walls. It’s like the awkwardness of seeing your teachers outside of school until you break the ice. But once trust is built, that's when the real fun begins. Curious about navigating the tricky boundaries of coworker friendships and breaking free from workplace dynamics?

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You got Time to Chat or Are you Closed?
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You got Time to Chat or Are you Closed?

this post, I reflect on my journey as a creative soul, navigating the ups and downs of artistic expression and the pressure to meet societal expectations. As someone who has always loved hands-on art, I explore the disconnection I’ve felt lately between my creative passions and the content I produce online. I dive into the history of art’s transformation, from craftsmanship to aesthetics, and how this shift influences our modern views of creativity. Ultimately, I question the fine line between authenticity and external perception, as I search for a way to reconnect with the joy of creating simply for the sake of expression.

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Do you Want Friend Groups or Is That a Thing of the Past?
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Do you Want Friend Groups or Is That a Thing of the Past?

The concept of friendship groups, inspired by her binge-watching of How I Met Your Mother. She dives into the challenges of forming meaningful connections in today's world, especially in cities like Sacramento where the lack of "third places" makes casual hangouts harder to come by. Through a mix of humor and nostalgia, Janessa explores the importance of putting effort into friendships, rejecting the myth that a smaller group is always better, and embracing the chaos and love of larger circles.

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Are You a Misfit or Just Misunderstood?
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Are You a Misfit or Just Misunderstood?

I have this urge to fit in with everyone but simply cannot and never will. I tried different people never the right fit for me. I find myself shrinking or expanding beyond my capabilities. Now, I’m learning that true connection isn’t about convenience—it’s about intention.

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